Day 13: The Wing of a Dove

Before Matthew moved out of the flat, he moved down to his office. He’d come up and we’d have dinner together if I was in for the evening, but otherwise he kept to his spacious digs below. It was like having a permanent dinner guest, except he never brought the wine.

Matthew never used the flat otherwise, except when I was away travelling. Then he moved back in for the duration. He was gone by the time I returned but I always knew he’d been there because the flat was different when i came back. During my absence he would rearrange the furniture and redecorate. He’d litter the house with throw covers, bud vases and assorted knickknacks, stuff that we ordinarily kept out of sight in the closets. I would come back to a different flat than I one I had left: not mine, not ours, but his.

Bowerbird Nest

Bowerbird Nest

It made me think of male bowerbirds, who decorate their nests with things like shards of colored glass and dappled insects, berries and feathers and moss. Except his intent was not to attract a mate but to repel one. Well, that’s perhaps unfair. He may have just wanted to feel more at home. But he was also making a point. Redecorating the house was his way of reasserting his presence in the flat, a way of marking a territory. Which makes me think that perhaps dogs make for a better metaphor than birds in this case.

Among the objects Matthew would retrieve from the hidden excess of our possessions were small-scaled replicas of museum objects: a Cycladic figure, a collared jar, a small statue of Apollo with his lyre, a small silver icon, oh, and yes, the clay bird. Like the rest of the things Matthew strewed around the house they were on exhibit, meant to be viewed, thought about and grappled with.

Objects can be a weapon even when they are never wielded as such. Matthew’s little exhibition of vases and knickknacks was an act as aggressive as the thrust of a sword.

Even before I unpacked my suitcase, I would set about righting the flat. I’d push the sofa back to (what I thought was) its rightful place, realigned the armchairs, and took the dracaenas back out to the terrace. And then I set about dismantling Matthew’s exhibition. It took me half an hour to restore the flat to its previous, more minimalist state.

When Matthew left he took most of this bric-a-brac with him. Or maybe he tossed it. He never said. But for some reason he left behind the clay bird. This was odd. Matthew always varied the collection of objects he would disperse through the flat, depending, I suppose, on season and mood, but the bird was always there. I used to think it was because he was particularly fond of it, but now I suspect he put on exhibit because he knew that I particularly disliked the object.

The seated dove was a museum reproduction of a figurine from Greek antiquity. Like other cult objects from the period, it looked surprisingly contemporary in its abstraction and lack of detail. There was just a suggestion of legs in the squat figurine, and the folded wings seemed to merge with the tail, making the piece resemble more a flipper-less sea lion than a bird of flight. It was the color of sand with a spot of ochre on the breast, which in the original may have been a remnant of the original paint but in the reproduction looked more like shoddy workmanship, an impression reinforced by the fact that the tip of the wing had broken off (which we ourselves had caused, though it happened so long ago I can’t remember how).

I never liked it. I don’t know why. Maybe it was the chipped wing that bothered me, the sense of injury and disability; it was a bird that would never fly again. Or the ochre blemish. Or the fact that it was a scaled-down reproduction of a museum piece. I never liked museum replicas, which seemed to me to be just a very expensive variant of the postcard: an attempt to literally objectify memory by turning experience into an object to possess.

Though I never liked this clay dove, I kept it after Matthew left. I suppose I was superstitious about the karma of throwing away an object—even in its distant and denatured reproduction—that may have been used in ritual worship. Upon investigation, it turns that this interpretation has largely been discredited. What is known, however, is that this and similar objects were all found in graves. Which probably makes for even worse karma.

After work today I took the bird with me to the park. I placed at the trunk of a eucalyptus tree and left. A bit corny, I know, but I couldn’t bring myself to throw it in the garbage.


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